Showing posts with label Registry. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Registry. Show all posts

Sunday, January 30, 2011

Stand by your man

Today was a productive day, though we're not able to check anything completely off our wedding to-do list. A and I began our Sunday morning with a scrumptious brunch at Granite City on Madison's west side. Once the mall opened, we walked into Willams-Sonoma and created a registry, including a few special kitchen gadgets we wouldn't ordinarily purchase for ourselves. I think A is most excited about the popsicle maker. Selfishly, I'm hoping for Bordeaux glasses.



We continued on to Men's Warehouse, where A tried his suit on for the tailor. Two simple words: Bad ass. He won't let me see the final look–it's only fair–but I have no worries. He's going to look so handsome. He's feeling somewhat confident about having this nearly checked off, but will happy once the suit is in his hands a couple of weeks from now.

Next, we checked out wedding bands at Kessler's Diamonds, the local jeweler where A purchased my engagement ring. It's funny how sometimes you think you know exactly what you want. Then you put it on your finger and it's totally wrong. I was right about what I wanted in an engagement ring. I catch myself glancing at my left hand frequently. However, I was wrong in regards to what I wanted in a band. Good thing I tried a few on. A felt pretty solid on what he wants–something simple. We each found great bands that we look forward to slipping on one another's finger in a few months.

It felt really good today to focus on things A needs for the wedding rather than stressing about programs and playlists and slideshows. I look forward to working on those things, too, but I enjoyed A feeling like a groom. I realized I want him to have more moments like that, where he just gets to enjoy his role, rather than just answer my incessant questions about swirls on the programs.

Friday, December 3, 2010

Holiday gifts don't have to be the pits...

Just a quick note.

In the spirit of saving money for the wedding, A and I are trying not to fall too victim to the commercialism of the holiday season this year. We're still decorating feverishly, but we agreed not to go overboard with gifts. I'll admit, I went a little crazy on Black Friday, but seriously?!?! I got a $225 peacoat for like $70... that's just smart shopping.

Moving along. I received an e-mail that led me to a fun new site I'll be perusing that outlines great online sales. In fact, if anyone out there was thinking of getting Aaron and I an electric griddle for our wedding gift, I found a great deal on this site... save 50% and free shipping/handling. Just saying.

Anyway, I'm a huge fan of DIY gifts... framed photos, jewelry and food. But if you don't have the time or patience to do it all yourself, I recommend looking at MyBargainBuddy.com for some great savings.

Saturday, September 4, 2010

Registration Station

Hooray to starting our Wedding Registry today! How exciting... and exhausting. To prepare for the event, last night I looked at several suggestive registry lists and together we compiled our own list of "must haves." Today we perused the aisles of Target and Kohl's and found item after item on our list. We could have easily checked everything off and been home by lunch. Unfortunately, we didn't really find many items we actually liked. So rather than settling by adding items that less than met our expectations, we said, "Maybe later."

I've read several articles on wedding Web sites and in magazines about registering for items in a wide range of price points to accommodate the budgets of your many friends and family. I don't disagree with this concept. As someone who knows plenty of people on a tight budget, I think it's appropriate to make your wedding an affordable event for all you would like to attend. However, I'm not about to register for a $10 gadget or knickknack I will never use for the sole purpose of expanding the lower price point of my registry.

If your 5 college friends can only afford something inexpensive on their own, they shouldn't feel guilty for all chipping in to buy one item you'll really love. Other options: Items that really speak to who you are as a couple. Love music? iTunes gift cards. Foodies? A wonderful bottle of wine or tickets to a local food and/or wine festival. My favorite new registry option... honeymoon registries! I'm working on convincing Aaron right now that we need to register for our honeymoon in Ocho Rios, Jamaica.

Aaron and I have lived together for several years and after combining housewares, purchasing new items together, and receiving exactly what we want for gifts, we find ourselves with little that we need to register for. We pretty much decided that hangers, a filing cabinet and an ironing board were the only real necessities. :) We're really happy with the things we have and don't want to put something on the registry just to get something new. So for family and friends who might be reading this, if you don't see something on our registry that you're dying to get us... hold tight. I'm working on something we're sure to love and remember for a lifetime.